Its Been One hell of a month...but God dey!!!

My beautiful people of blogville!! Oh have i missed u lot!!! I know ehem I have to say sorry for the MIA ish that went down, but babes where ridiculosly busy. Working two jobs, (which I quit one by the way, am not that broke please!!! I cant kill myself) and i dunno everytime i wanted to start writng about something, I would become bored and leave it half way. Anyways am back!!!! Thanks to everyone that checked up on me, and those that hounded me to update. Love all of u muchos!!! So whats new people, Any engagements, childbirths anything!?!??!..lemme know ooo!!!

Ahh the month of july went by soo fast. Firstly with the new job, lord was I busy. The job itself isnt that busy but waking up so early and going to bed so late, left little time for anything else. This month also saw about my learning how to drive. yep people, In my old age I had to overcome my phobia and learn how to drive!! I am tired of taking transit!!! So yes I will be a certified driver next week, if I pass my test!!!

Work. Work is ok. Boring. Same ol crap I cant wait to go back to school in the fall I think I am beginning to realise the whole 9-5 ish is not for everybody. I dunno if i want to do this fulltime when I graduate but what are my options!!! The money on the other hand isnt half bad so I am not complaining! I shall shut up and sit here for the next month and pack my load to my house!!

In the Hubby news. well things are great as of today. as of last week I was kinda single. lol. I did something. Yep Ms O screwed herself over. No i didn not cheat per se. No i did not do anything your mind is thinking. But I did do something that could not just be easily forgiven. So he was mad and what not. tried to ignore me, but ALAS!! he loves me too much so, we talked everything out and well all I can say is we are both very happy. I have a renewed love for this man. Like I never knew I could care so much about someone and yet they seem to care about me more. Like isnt that just great!! All the Gbegberuns in our life are starting to fall back because I guess they have tried all they can and well since nothing they are doing is working, They are learning to move on.

IS THIS POST TO LONG ALREADY!!!....SORRY OOO IF IT IS!!! BUT YEP..I HAVE MORE ISH TO SAY!!! SO THIS IS TOPIC NUMBER TWO THAT HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME..WHY OH WHY ARE NIGERIANS LIKE THIS WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!

Something that has been bothering me for like ever. So I live in this city where nobody minds their business it reminds me so much of back home where everyone is in everyones business. But i digress. So in this city of mine which I plan to leave the second I graduate, Everyone likes to talk about everyone. and OMIGOSH its not not the girls, The guys talk more than the girls self asin its very disturbing we have these guys who are all friends and I WILL REFER TO THEM AS THE GBEGBERUNS of the city. These are grown men who dont know how to mind their business. They Kiss and tell oh yes they do. So if you have anything to do with them you are a gonna. Coz they will tell your gist to all their friends and its a wrap your rep is on the line forever. And also if they disturb you for too long and you keep posting them, guess what they will formulate the most amazing things in this world and tell the whole world and your rep will again be ruined forever.

When I went to my University, I had not lived amongst Nigerians for a long while. I love my culture, I love everything about being Nigerian so when I moved and was suddenly surrounded by so many Nigerian people I loved it. I really put myself out there went for their events, volunteered, everything. Next thing you know as the naija girl I was with a very open mind and trusting people, being way too nice to randoms and all that, My name entered the gist. AHH Ms O did this Ms O did that. It became fustrating at one point for a while I went into hiding in my second yr. So I ask myself and you beautiful people of blogville why do Some Nigerian people like to act like they are holier than thou? am sure ill get randoms saying crap but I dont give two. Because half the time the people saying all this stuff arent any better. I go on some African and Nigerian groups on facebook and I see all these people claiming Virginity when the whole world knows they done had an abortion. So why would we rather lie to ourselves and even the ones we call our friends than be real about certain aspects of our lives? and why cant Some people jsut be mature and act thier age? So my main question is why is it that people dont mind their bussiness? why do people like to talk and formulate gist? Some of which are very disturbing. WHY OOO WHY!!!! This is my MONTHLY VENT. so someone please answer me!!!

lol..that was long. Right now am stuck on this old jam. Case-Missing You..was always one of my fave songs. Ok am outtie...XOXO

14 comments:

Lighty 'neferet' Kopearl said...

why people act holier than thou??? to make themselves feel good??

why they lie about virginity???
somehow they think it would make them a better person if they really were.

and why naija people talk about others??? its wot people do. black, white, asian.
you have to be talked about to know u matter.

goodluck on ur test. all the best new driver.
arrghh... i hate learner drivers. lol! X.

Jaguda said...

lying about virginity has to be the dumbest thing ever. as in why lie? goodluck on ur test and thanks for stopping by. im honoured[bowing down]

LG said...

hmm! wat can i say *scratches head*
lol newayz 'Lightly' has said it all, d bottom line is WHY LIE???
o baby do ur thing jare, nor look dem face

muuah 4 stopping by, i xpect more visits tho
cheers n goodluck with ur 'test'

rayo said...

people with borin lives, live vicariously thru others nd r thrilled to make mountains out of their molehills, dont let them get 2 u jare

yankeenaijababe said...

Don't you just hate fake peeps? just one step at a time...u getting there. Take it easy sista.

yankeenaijababe said...

What's ur major?

Chari said...

me i dunno why some people form virgin when they are not...doesnt make any sense at all to me...

then people that dont mind theit business...mehn am too busy doin me that I dnt even pay attention to those dim wits even though I hear abau their handwork...

like I've been sayin since...babe u r pimpin!!!!! am happy for u n hubby....

we too can love one day ooo...

bumight said...

people like to claim they are virgins so it makes them appear as "good" girls.

Buttercup said...

thank God u quit one job, i was wonderin how u were gonna cope..

i still dnt knw how to drive! gudluck o!

awwww glad u n ur man cud work things out...love is just so beautiful!

as for those naijas...i just dnt get it...i rily dnt!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Why dont people mind their business? Simple: They are jobless!!People that have ish to do, dont waste their time sticking their nose in other peoples business. Goodluck on your drivers test, im sure ull do fine. I just drove xtra slow and it worked! even though i screwed up on parallel parking. Hmmmm u didnt tell us what u did 2 ur hubby! Glad all is well though. Im glad u quite the second job. You need to rest. Have a g8 week babes

Ms.O said...

@ Lightly thank u.. But dont u think as we get older, people normally stop talking about other peoples business.Its just disheartening to see 23 24 yr old men talking crap..**smh!!
@ Jaguda ur welcome..am about to blogroll u self...:D
@LG... I will most def be back!!!...I wonder too man why lie.
@ Rayo...I love what you said...wow
@YNB...i am ooo..I let them alone a long time ago. Now i think they are angry they dont have gist about me...SMH!!! ohh and my major is Political science/International relations.
@ CHARIII...Lol yes babes u shall love someday. Some people lie man..asin i cant shout for them again.
@BUMIGHT...Please these so called good girls do they get a special reward or some kind of prize? coZ I dont understand thier logic.
@ Buttercup.Yep me and him worked it out...I love him. and tht two job ish, is not for me at all!!! thank u too.:D
@NDQ...Only u would want to know what I did..girl its too bad..I dont even wanna tell noone!!...lol...anywayz I will pass by force am tired of the transit ish. All these jobless people need to free me oo!!!

Thanx guys your comments make me wanna write.

Anonymous said...

hey miss i love u...

Lady Koko said...

BUAAHAHAHHAH!!!!!!!!!!! WHY AM I JUST SEEING THIS PART OF THE POST.....
AND ERM,............
abeg who is this annony that loves my ms.o oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!buhahahahhah!!!!!!!!!!!THIS BLOG SEF...STRANGE TINGS BE HAPPENING...
HMMMMM........I TIRE FOR THE TRIFFLING BISHES TOO OOOO.......AND TO THINK THESE BITCHES ARE FELLO BROTHAS..wot a damn ass shame!!!!!!!!!!
p.s:XOXO

Ms.O said...

lol babes...Annony..is Hubby..:)
Dont mind them....trifling sex having blowjob giving bitches..who like to act holier than thou..hissssssssss