LIVING LIFE LIKE ITS GOLDEn

Hey y'all,

How is everyone doing? I have had a very busy week like omg . lemme walk you through a day in my life. Well so I got a 8-4 (aka 9-5) job. And I am so happy like omg I was looking for a job soo hard and when i gave up and concentrated on my other job, God gave me my dream job. am so happy like ecstatic. but I digress, so every morning I wake up at 6am. shower...am out of the house by 6:45. I dont drive right now so I have to take transit.. I am on the bus till 8:00. Work from 8am-4:30pm. Then off to my second job which starts at 5pm. work 5pm till 9:30pm. Get back on the bus. My second job is kinda far from my house so I get home by 11pm sumtimes 11:30..of course i have to go through blogville, facebook and emails and ish So i am in bed by like 12:30-1am ish.. and wakes up at 6am. YES THIS WAS ME FOR A WEEK. i DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE I GOT THE STRENGHT BUT GOD DEY!!!. this post might be verrrrry long..I might make it into 2 parts. First of all I want to discuss somethings that have been bothering me for a while now.

First of all over the weekend I heard of a friend that died. At my age of 20-summin this is the first person I actually know to die. and well I was shocked, didnt know how to react, was just very blah to the whole situation. Went on hIS facebook it was his bday on wednesday and I hadnt wished him a happy birthday coz I was "working" and was soo busy. I hadnt cared to try and find out how he was doing since he moved back to Ghana. He was a sicklar so I guess it was kinda expected but still. Why is life soo sad. His brother is here and I dont understand how am supposed to comfort him or make him feel better coz I know he wont. His sister has cried her eyes out. I dont even wanna know how his mum and dad feel. Over all I am just sad. I dont understand how two ppl that are AS(blood type) would marry and have children isnt that utter wickedness. Yea fine the other two are healthy but still. This boy just graduated in December. After all the thousands of dollars his parents have spent coz he is an international student, God just takes him. After all the love and pain and everything they have been through? When I was in first year in mY chool I spent my spring break with him and his brother playin monpoly erryday till 8am in the morning and then we would all fall asleep and wake up and the girls would cook while the guyz cleand up and then we would be bAck to monopoly!!!!..like how do you forget such memories? This has sha made me come to one conclusion..plssssssssssss if ur AS dont marry another AS. the pain is too much. My friends dad died earlier this month from the exact same thing. Like i am just scared right now of the world. as if that wasnt enough my friend that staying with mE for the summer, her Boss's son thAt he runs his business with died yesterday. They where suppsoed to be away for the weekend having fun coz its a long weekend and now his son is dead..Like PEOPLE WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE WORLD BIKO. SUMOBODY ANSWER ME PLEASE!!!...and to make things worse my bank acocunt just went through some fraud ish..now my acount is on hold I have to go talk to the police. I dunno if I can open a new account I was suppposed to start driving lessons this week. now i cant pay for it coz my acocunt is frozen. I am JUST ASKING JESUS TO TAKE THE WHEEL. Like right now I am trying hard to live my life like its Golden. enjoy every moment like its my last. Tell the people I love that I love em. Today is my daddy's birthday and i just feel the urge to hug him but he isnt here(he lives in another country for now) and am just sad. what if he never knows how much i love him. Even my mum I never tell her how much I love her and how much she means to me. Right now am just reflecting on life in general. All the things I do like my life dependS on them, do they really matter? what actually matters in life? iN THE END ITS THE LEGACY YOU LIVE BEHIND THAT MATTERS. and right now am on my way to create my own legacy. I am not even bothered that i wont have money again coz the bank will ask me to pay all the money back..ask me why i dunno oo!!!.. but right now God Dey!!! AND THATZ ALL THAT MATTERS!!! I LOVE MY MUMMYYYYYYYYYY AND MY DADDYYYYYYYY!! my brothers even if they are soooooooooooooo annoying!!1 MY SISTER!!! even if she is evry mEan to me most times. MY BABY!! I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND STRENGHT AND BODY ..ERRYTHING!!! I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GOD!!!! I LOVE MY FRIENDS. THE ONES THAT ALWAYS HAVE ME AT HEART!!!.. I LOVE LIFEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!. THIS IS MY PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT ....and am out!!!...

p.s.. Naija reunion in Cali got cancelled coz of sum ish that could be resolved in my opinion. oh well i dont have time to be angry like half of the folks out there.. coz life is too short people..go out there and start a random party if you wanna dance soo bad!!!. ok am out nw

ill write about the other crap bothering me tomorrow. @ my new job I have lodsa spare time!!!

28 comments:

Charizard said...

1st...!!!!!!!!


buahahahahahah!

Charizard said...

the girl don fear!

"I love ma friends...i love this..I love that...i"

hbuahahahaha...it is well! come babe give us jus small...eeny weent out of taht new salary na...

dat one okrika girl...xyz said...

Jesus take the wheel, abi o. This life is not easy at all. Sorry about all the news of death. As for you friends brother all you can do is pray for him and his family, God will give them strength during this time.

Abeg call your daddy o; you don't have to worry if they know you love them, I'm sure they already know, maybe every now and then you can just end your conversations with "i love you". I did that to my mom recently and she was like "what is wrong?" nothing o.

Anyway God continue to give you the strength, I couldn't do what you are doing right now, you be superwoman o!
congrats on the new job sha!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Love your public announcement! Sometimes it takes something as tragic as death for us to realize how blessed we are!
Sounds like your one busy woman! But thats a good thing-something about being busy is always good for me. It makes me get more stuff done...
Hmmm I was supposed to go for that reunion and then heard about the yawa. My friend is one of the organizers....she is pissed!!!

Afrobabe said...

You are looking at the loss of the boy...but his parents are looking at how long they were blessed with him..you talk about the expensive education...the parents are happy they were able to make him happy and never lack...death is inevitable though that does not make it any easier....

congrats on ur new job dear...u r strong, I would have broken down with a schedule like urs...

Lady Koko said...

I LOVE YOU MEHNN!!!!! I HAVE SERIOUSL MISSED U THIS WEEK!
SO THEY EVEN CANCELED THE REUNION! *sigh*.
p.s: am soo sorry for your lose babes....xoxo

Lady Koko said...

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rohit said...

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a kiss for you, my dear friend!

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BlogVille Idol said...

hrd abt the 9ja reunion that got cancelled...men this chic you work too hard o!!!

so sorry abt your friend that passed away!!I hate hearing abt young pple death!!!

anyway pls check out our page!!blogville idol starts 7th july 08!!!tanx PinkSatin

NaijaBabe said...

Pele o...2 jobs and you're not home till 11? You try o! May God crown all ur efforts o.

As for the AS stuvvs, I'm scared o cos I think I might be one, so I have to really be careful, its scary.

May your friend's soul rest in peace o and may God grant his family the fortitude to bear this. It is so bad in jand now that there were at least 3 stabbings last week and 2 french students were stabbed over 240 times....so I second your question, what is this world turning into?

Ms.O said...

@ Chari..4 realz I had to tell everyone how I feel. you never know when it is too late.

@ Okrika babe...AHH I called my daddy immediately and told him how much i care.

@ NDQ...I know eh, the reunion got canceled over summing so foolish. and I am loving my busy life. its only gonna be like this for 2 more months tho..then back to school!!!

@ Afrobabe...I know babes, God is giving me strength i never thought i had.

@ Twinnieee...I MISSSSS U TOOO!!!..Hope mummy brought us lodsa food and money..remember sharing is caring!!!!loooool

@ Blogville idol..I will be there voting..4sure!!!!

@ Naijababe.. Thanx gurl. and plz check with the AS sturvs...and prevent yourself from marrying someone with the same thing if you can. the heart ache that comes with it, is too much.

THANXXX GUYZ!!!!

Waffarian said...

Life is the way it is...sometimes there are just no reasons. Keep your head up and just do the best you can. I am sorry about the death of your friend and I really do agree with you about the AS thingy...men...there are just no excuses.

Stay strong!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Hey babes! You posted your comment right as I was posting my responses, so I thought to come here:-) Im actually thinking of switching the topic of my senior paper back to this! Let me know if you want to know some books, links, etc..we can bounce around ideas! Have a poppin weekend (mine will be spent studying...blah!)

Zephi Fahrenheit said...

oh wow..hun..a lot of sad stuff in this post..I admire that you turned it around as a precaution to live your life like its your last day and love those who are important to you with no barriers..
May God grant strength to those families who have lost their loved onesd
I hope everything turns out ok
How did your acount get frauded? thats weird

Lady Koko said...

*SHARING IS CARING*......hisssssssssss!!!!!!!!!! read my lips......"you is a LOSER" HEHE....
P.S: I STILL LOVE YOU SHA! XOXO
P.P.S: THE NEXT TIME I REACH HERE..UPDATE BETTA DEY!

yankeenaijachick said...

Thanks for stopping by my blog...happy to know ya happy. That's what life is all about.

Sorry about the loss of ya friend. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Be strong.Stay cutie.

dat one okrika girl...xyz said...

Madam hope the new job is going well, have a good weekend.

Honeywell said...

kai! mehn i know how you feel oh! it just starts making you consider all the things you take for granted..... just being in the same room with your friend's brother and sister is enough.... i've never personally felt that saying sorry to someone who lost a relative helps...... body language is better. Just being THERE lets them know that you care...

omo, this your work schedule is serious! it must be God's strength oh, because except you have a personal contract with red bull, i don't know how else you would be getting all the energy! just make sure you rest on weekends to recharge!

Buttercup said...

two jobs....wow...dont burn urself out girl!

wow thats so sad...so sorry bout ur loss...just continue to cherish the memories u have...

yea, the AS n AS thing is scary...i guess love blinded em to the consequences...this love shaaaa...

awwwwww if only ur fam cud read this...sweet!

u've not written bout the other crap botherin u o!

take care!

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

Nice spot u have here, hope u don’t mind the drive by, do chk me out one day

raw dawg buffalo and if u like what u read, maybe u will come back, even Blog Roll Me

ShonaVixen said...

hope the job is going well..suppose its taking up most of ur time thats why no update o!Please update..lol..

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

life is WAY too short and I wanna dance so party over at solomonsydelle.com. All are invited but entrance fee of one bottle of shaks/person is required. Also, strict dress code - no Tims, no baggy sweat, girls get your nails done and put on your freakum dress, bobos come fly with cash to spray, sugar daddies come with your application as Bumight is seeking. lol!

Take care babe and update, I want to read about what's going on at work. Thanks so much for your insightful comments at my ...Easier... site this week!

OluwaDee said...

Death can be painful, but his parents gave him all they could while he was alive.

wellsbaba said...

kai,I havent been here in a longtime,sorry i havent been a good friend...sorry bout d death nothin do u....Jesus is with you!...hold on b strong!

uNWrItten* said...

lol ok..its 4.02 am and i just read all ur posts!..lol..ur pretty cool hun...hope ur relationship is going good hun..im talking to a guy longdistance right now..and well its just talking but it still sucks..not being able to see him..
love ur blog sha!:)

Afrobabe said...

Oya update this joint...

Ms.O said...

AWW SEETHEARTS!!!..You guys are the best..lemme update right now!!! Thanx for all the well wishes people. work is great!!1..lemme update..:D

Morna said...

Good for people to know.