Are we talking,dating...........................

I have recently caught the twitter bug too.I am yet to figure out what the hype about twitter is though because so far, seems same ol to me. If you find me add me!!!

So Last weekend I had my BFF visit me from Toronto.(The child decided to leave me after she graduated to bigger and better things in the big flashy city.. Mschewww YOU SUCK!!!) SO on Sunday after church, my other friends came over and we had lunch and relaxed and as usual the topic of relationships came up. So one of my friends just started dating someone new- well according to my definition-but whenever we tell her that she is dating, she says no it is not dating yet because they are not official instead she insits that they are seeing each other or better yet casually dating. I don't know you all but all these labels and what not get me confused. According to my definitions or timeline of dating this is how it should go.

I meet someone, we talk once in a while, find out we are attracted to each other, blah blah....-regular getting to know each other on a friendship level
We start talking, hanging out,seeing each other often, getting to know each other intimately(sometimes)- at this stage we are TALKING

We decide we like each other, we are compatible, we see ourselves together, we spend all our time together, we talk all the time on the phone(LDR'S)- DATING/BF/GF/ AKA!!serious relationship.-- this is what my friend is doing by the way!
All these other labels like seeing each other, casually dating, fooling around, its complicated(lol facebook). Just do not make sense to me. Or what do you think blogfam? Is there any need for the exact definitions at each point in the relationship? or Am I just naive to think once em and a guy are past the talking stage, we are now dating?

37 comments:

http://myspiltink.blogspot.com said...

I have always said this... CLARITY IS KEY!!!!!

Hmm... if you like be assuming there. Lol.. Shocker would just gbe so ke!

LOOOOL.... I dont know about all these extra terms, but I think its key to define stuff.... if your not "dating" your JUST FRIENDS!!

Until you both AGREE...that you are more than friends, u are JUST friends. So better clarify. Don't assume because he kissed you once, or he touched your breasts twice that you are now boyfriend and girlfriend. Lol....

If in doubt. Ask.

Myne Whitman said...

I second my spilt ink. If in doubt ask. But for me it is, Friendship, dating, relationship.

Controversy said...

Lol @ if in doubt ask.
Double lol @ it's complicated, i've always found dat part corny

Fragilelooks said...

Lol @ facebook(it's complicated)

yankeenaijababe said...

I love the new layout, very nice. Any relationship do not need a definition at each stage,I believe the relationship should change its couse itself. Hope you are doing great...I hate twitter.lol

Nice Anon said...

That is how he will "break" up with you tomorrow and say you were never dating to begin with. There should be a definition. I am old school like that!

StR8 UP Desiree'D said...

I totally agree with your def! that's how I classify it... then again tho, you need to communicate this with the other person, make sure you're both on the same wavelength as pa classification goes, cuz lawd knows you'll be thinking y'all are an item whereas he's thinks not! ha

yankeenaijababe said...

I wanted to mention you and your sister look so alike....you know am so crazy about weddings.lol

Omotee! said...

those definitions/terms confuse me jare. but there should be clarity, just so u r on the same station.

and nice layout too, cool!

Original Mgbeke said...

Please define it o. These guys are on another P, that is how you will see him with another woman and he will flip it on you and claim that you guys were never official.

scribble,me.free said...

I always thought dating was one of the first steps. i.e.

1.You meet someone new - initial attraction. (this could be several people)
2.You go on a date to figure out if you can stand to be around them for extended periods of time - dating (once again, a few people could be involved)
3.You start getting to know the person, figuring out if it can progress further - talking (the number of people involved should be significantly reduced by now)
4.You both decide that its worth the plunge and you commit (clearly and completely- there is a specific 'talk' that needs to be had) Then, and only then, is it a serious, committed relationship (of course at this point there's only the two)

Afrobabe said...

As far as I am concerned once you start calling me 247,asking me to dinner and wanting to hang out, we are dating..

When we get intimate..baby you better bring your tuxedo for the wedding *wink!

Ms.O said...

@ Spilt Ink- LOOOOL! I believe Clarity is key too. But all these terms for in between is what gets to me.

@Myne. I love your definations.

@CONTROVERSY-facebook killed me with that one, and to think people actually use it..LOL

@FragileLooks- lol I know.

@YNC-I am doign well sweetz! Love your new hair!

@Omotee- The terms confuse me too! which is why I brought it up with the blogfam!

@OM- hahah! I know eh! I am very much for defining the relationship but all these terms have me confused!

@SMF- Wow I love your definations. Makes it clean simple no complications. good job SCRIBBLES!

@Afrobabe- hahahaha! That would mean some of us have been married like countless times now. wink wink!

Ms.O said...

Nice Anon- that is true tho..:)

Desiree- I tried to go on your blog, but I couldnt comment, fix it!

TinTin said...

Aunty Canada...whats poppin?

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