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Thanks for the support...:)
Hugs and Kisses
Ms.O

Its the little things.......

.....On days when I am so ANGRY and IRATE-for no reason(I am blaming PMS)......

LIKE

*Getting jokes(Read dry jokes) from my dad via txt messages...and him calling to confirm if I thought they where funny and if I laughed...*blank stare* #LOL!
*Talking to the BFF via BBM for hours(actually we where sending each other lyrics to this one song we cant get outta our head, for hrs....#LAUGHS)
*Talking to the bestie via skype for 2+ hrs....This dude right here..#JOKESFORDAYS!
*Talking to my 'Obim' while he whispers sweet nothings in my ears.......Tehehehehehehehe...iBlush
*.....Looking at these....iSmile...:)


............That makes me THANKFUL and HAPPY.I then realize I do have a good life and an even better support system! *BBM dancing emotion*

Hugs and Kisses.
Ms.O

Free Fallin'....

-What am I doing for Independence day? Well I am part of a campaign started by my friend Jeti It is called #GiveMe50. As we all know, Nigeria is turning 50 next week and I really am not in the mood for a celebration. This is because I do not feel I have anything to celebrate. Instead I am asking Nigeria to do ONE thing for me and maybe next yr I would have a cause to celebrate. I am asking for an end(or maybe less, or a start towards) to sexual abuse in homes. The house girls sleeping with the little boys-the uncles sleeping with the little girls-the oga's sleeping with the house girls-rape-date rapes,etc. I feel we as Nigerians never discuss it because it is such an offensive topic, BUT I am willing to be a spokes person on this issue and maybe in the future I would tell you guys why I am so passionate about this aspect of Nigeria's development. In the mean time go to #GIVEME50NIGERIA TO SUPPORT, LEARN JOIN, ETC.


-moving on....FYI--->Music is my therapy(after shopping) I listened to a Fab mixtape recently by the guys and girls over at We Plug G.O.O.D. Music and all I can say is Fabness all around..DOWNLOAD BY CLICKING THE LINK

-Also my friends at 360Nobs.com Have an amazing collection of OLD Nigerian music. Listening to the list brought about a feeling of nostalgia. iLove.


-Why do I feel like I am meant to be with an Igbo man for the rest of my life? I just have this preference for them. I cant even explain it.. actually I can, they are FINER and have MORE drive...#IMHO!...I Still love Yoruba, Edo, akwaibom, etc men tho...LOL!

-RE: Eddie Long issue, I am currently praying for the Body Of Christ aka The Church. I am also working on a post regarding a discussion that we had on twitter on Wednesday. I need to present my opinion with facts and proper findings so bare with me.

-ONFRIENDS: Today one year ago, I met one fo my closest friends right now. We had 'met' other times in the past but never said anything to each other. I remember him asking me for my pin at this event and weirdly enough I had lost my phone earlier that day. (HE STILL BELIEVES I JUST DIDN'T WANT TO GIVE IT TO HIM....HAHAHAHA) I Love this man(platonic ally) with all my heart, he makes me want to be a better person, teaches me about life, tells me when a guy is bullshitting me and who is for real, compliments me, helps me, is there for me DAILY, supplies me with indomie, amongst others. He has seen me cry more times in a yr than most of my other friends. I totally forgot it was our one yr 'anniversary' today. He called me at midnight and reminded me, while saying some of the most amazing things ever. I had tears in my eyes. I LOVE THIS MAN! Here is a toast to a true friend! Happy Anni T.D!(In your mind now, you will feel special...)

InTwitter Woes,

-Isn't it funny how people on twitter HYPE a song or artist so much that you believe they are the next best thing since slice bread. Then you 'logoff' go into the real world and talk about 'X' person and people are like 'huh? who is that?' and then you try to explain and they are like 'nope never heard of him/her'..BUAHAHAHAHA! Please Artists, producers, designers, etc promote yourself OUTSIDE twitter. There is a HUGE population that are not on there. They matter.

-I read a blog post(More like tirade) the other day calling out naija artist for "feeling themselves" because they don't reply to tweets and when they meet their fans in public they are rude...O_o...err OK buddy...I really don't want to go into that right now. Lets just say, I want to know the last time Keri Hilson, Rihanna, Kim or even Lil duval replied a regular fan.. double standards much?

-Happiness is a BEAUTIFUL THING!**HUGE GRIN**

Note: The campaign is not yet fully lunched yet. It would be launched officially on October 1st 2010and the website would have more information.

Light Skinned

This is a rant....if you take offence easily, please exit this page now. Thank You.

OK so I am light skinned(for those of you who do not know). I have been this way since I was born..duh!..and up until I moved to Canada like 6yrs ago. I did not know that being light skinned was a "big deal" or seen as an "easier" way to achieve success. This rant is because I am sick and tired of all the light skinned hate/bashing. I was born light skinned. God made me that way. I did not go to him and beg and say "OHH LORDDDDDDDDDDD PLS MAKE ME LIGHT SKINNED So that I would be able to go through life "easier". I did not gravel and complain and tell God that if he did not make me light skinned I would not go to earth(LOL..that imagery just made me laugh). NO. God on his own made me light skinned. So I am SICK AND TIRED of all the crap I hear when it comes to light skinned people. It is so irritating to see people act like the reason I get some things in life is because I am light skinned. GTFOH!!!!!!!! do you know how hard I work because I am a pretty light skinned woman? Do you know what it takes for someone to take me seriously? that I am not another pretty face with an air head? No you don't. Now there are some people that believe light skinned is better and they will be very sufficeint but I do not think I am better than anyone. People now think saying they prefer dark skinned chic's makes them a better person.. #NEGROPLEASE. its all about preference. People complain when a celeb uses light skinned girls in his videos??? Like what aren't we human beings??? What if no dark skinned girls came for the audition? Did some of you think about that through your heads? I am just tired of light skinned people always being beat down, like we BEGGED to be light skinned, and as if we don't have to work for anything. Some idiot even told me the other day that most light skinned girls are not even pretty. That just because we are light skinned we get this 'pass' ...*ROLLING MY FECKING EYES*

WHATEVER...I JUST SAW SOME BULLSHIT TWEETS TODAY....AND I WAS ANGRY ALL OVER AGAIN.
SORRY FOR THE RANT.
P.S. I SWEAR I AM ON THE VERGE OF BECOMING A MEAN/BAD B***H AGAIN. MY NICENESS IS BEING MISTAKATELING FOR WEAKNESS AND I HAVE PRETTY MUCH HAD IT.

p.s I am really happy though! LIKE CLOUD 9 STUFF
P.S.S I get to have indomie soon! *bbm dancing emotion*
p.s.s iShould do a post about my new house...hmmmmm
p.s.s.s I know there are some stupid people out there that take the whole light skinned thing too far. I was just upset joor.

Hugs & Kisses
Ms.O

Happy Birthday Mum.

Today is my mothers birthday and I woke up really early and prayed to God on her behalf. I thanked God so much for her life. for her health, for her personality, for her strength, and at some point I started crying because I just realized all this woman has done for me. Now I would not begin to list them all her because I would be writing for months but all I can say is I am grateful.

The carrying a child for 9 months bit is already hard enough but the real work begins when the child is born. I would not be the way I am today if not for my mother. I am a strong, independent, smart, Christian, beautiful woman because of my mother. The discipline she instilled in me growing up has made me the woman I am today. I am so VERY Thankful for her. My mum is my rock. The great woman of God I desire to be when I grow up. She balances a career in nursing, being an entrepreneur and being a full time mother to four children.

She taught me to cook, clean, dress up, put on makeup, do my hair, study, pray, read my bible, do my nails, in general the fundamentals of being a good woman. I don't know where or what I would be without her. Today my only gift to her is prayer and love. The flowers die, the kitchen utensils stop working. but my love would always be there and my prayers would take her father than ever. I love my mum! She is my twin! I cannot wait for the day I start taking care of her as she has done for the past 20+ years for me.


Funny story: In my first yr of university, my parents helped me move to a city 5hrs away. we drove down and I checked into residence. While I went to familiarize myself with the campus, my parents went shopping and bought me a laptop, printer, duvet and other necessities. The store (future shop) was out of the printer my parents picked, So I was supposed to go back two weeks later to get the printer. I walked into the store two weeks later and this happens.....

Clerk:wohhhh woahhhh woahhhhhhh.
Me: huh??? (surprised look on face)
Clerk: you are here to pick up a printer eh?
Me: Yes. How did you know?
Clerk: Damn OMG. OMG! you look EXACTLY like your mother.
Me.(confused face)
Clerk: WOW I have never seen two people look alike like this. Like you walked in here and I knew you where her daughter.
ME..LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Yes this happens everyday. If you see me and my mum, we are TWINS! that's why I call her my twin! hehehe...Here as some pictures to prove it..:)


In LA last week!!!---Family Vacation!!!


Nigeria '09....Family vacation!

Happy birthday Mummy. This one is just for you! Now praying to God that I look this great at 53!!!!!!!!

Have a great weekend and week. This post might be disjointed, because I didn't over-think it. I just wrote.

Hugs and Kisses
Ms.O

p.s check the food blog later in the day. I would update it. I would do it right now, but I am almost late for church..:)....xx!

We Are everything from lovers to friends...and ViceVersa

My mind is in 5million directions right now. iFeel like pouring out. As usual you guys get to be a part of this fun fun fun experience. Are you excited now??? ya?? ya???? YES???...sigh OK fine! here we go!

Is it weird that my only goal in life is to be happy. OK so I am weird I have a timeline I work with in regards to my life and every yr I have accomplishments, goals etc to accomplish on it. The only constant in this timeline is happiness and it stretches from when I started this timeline to age 45 where it currently ends. I just want to be happy. All the time. I would never sacrifice my peace of mind for someone or something. E no too poss--not possible. That said I AM HAPPY!

Can you overdose on mangoes? Coz I bought a box of mangoes on Thursday last week.(COS IT WAS $1.89 FOR THE ENTIRE BOX!!!)Went away for the weekend and they where all ripe when I got back on Monday. I ate 4 in about 2hrs last night..THEY ARE SOO GOOD AND TASTY!

I learned what Okafor's Law meant recently..Oh God pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee don't ever make me be a victim of Okafor's law! #prayingfervently! Oh wait I already was??? #GOTTTDAMMIT!!!! #Kanyeshrug. (p.s. if you don't know, google is your friend)

I saw this tweet two days ago "Wait oh so all you girls that once you get boyfriends you forget who your REAL friends are, who would be there to comfort you when y'all breakup? #TRICKPLEASE" iDied of laugther! Oh how people forget..#sigh! (I really hope you guys don't breakup though)

My besties once told me: "Give me any two best friends who claim they are closer than close. I can make them dislike each other because you see girls are VERY fickle minded and would drop years of friendship for a man" I disagreed then. After recent happenings, not so much.....smh! P.S I heart the men in my life. They stay teaching me life lessons.

Delusions are a bad thing. I read some things and I go wow if only you know the real truth. Sadly I cant tell you, coz I am not that kind of person and you seem SO happy. Oh well living in a lie must be fun for some..yes? no? maybe? #Lohishrug

iCannot wait to be back in school in September! Ohh the joys of writing and reading and learning. I hate school. I don't know why I am so excited. I think its because I actually have a plan now. YIIPPPPIEEE!

iThink I met a good man. *fingers crossed* *knocks on wood not to jinx it* *smiles*

In twitter woes-news.

Am I the only person that gets irritated when people subliminal about their "HIM" or "HER'. No grown ass person should be putting their business out there on the inter webs for people who don't know you to see and then what be jealous? So we should tear our bra and use it as glasses? or jump from 3rd mainland bridge and die?(I always wanted to say that) hehe..Its just one of my pet peeves. I believe in discretion. HUGE ADVOCATE. PLEASE READ THIS BY MR. BEREOLAESQUE himself. #CHURCHHHHH

Gbaguan Mopol: absolutely needed. Did you guys go through "its" timeline to see the crime against the English language that where being committed? GOTTTDAMMIT! If these are the people that would be teaching our future children and are supposed to be the "leaders of tomorrow" then #NAIJAWEHAVEAPROBLEM!

Ok...I'm done!
Hugs and Kisses
Ms.O

Made in Canada

Thanks to twitter and the likes, I have began to talk to a lot of non-Canadians who always seem to believe we are just these 'wanna-be' Americans O_O! So I took it upon myself to 'ejumacate" the world on the beautiful contributions my wonderful country of Canada has brought to the world..hehe

- Drake- Do I REALLY need to explain why Drake is one of our greatest exports? He is not only the most talked about 'rapper' right now, but how many people do you get a Grammy nomination without an EP/Mixtape? Many of you might not know this but Drake was a TV star prior to his music career on a Canadian teenage drama called Degrassi. He was wheelchair JIMMY!!! hehehe. Shoutout to Drake for putting Canada/Toronto/T.dot on the map

-Justin Bieber- WOW..Justin Justin Justin. Do you know the city where this kid comes from is smaller than my village in Nigeria? LOL! He is now a world renowned celeb, with the most views on YouTube, longest TT on twitter, and many more accolades. All thanks to my baby daddy Usher. We love you Justin #ThankGodYouStoppedTrendingOnTwitterTho.



- K'naan- He was the voice of the world cup in 2010, with his hit waving flag. We have the city of Toronto and Canada's love for immigrants to thank for this amazing emcee. Take your time to listen to K'naan's album Troubadour,#SomeDopeIsh

- Research in Motion:Blackberry- How many of you knew this GREAT company that is the reason some of you have e-boyfriends right now is a Canadian company? Raise your hands?? No you didn't know? WELL GUESS WHAT, RIM is located in Waterloo ON. They are the brains behind the blackberry technology. I am sure alot of you reading this post right now, are on your BB's! YES THANK CANADA ALL OF YOU!

- CARIBANA- So it is Caribana this weekend and the amount of people that have hit me up from the States asking if i'm gonna be there is crazy! Caribana is not just your regular Caribbean carnival IT IS 20 times better. (OK maybe I lie, but still its fun joor)













- Twilight series + MANY OTHER MOVIES - ALL YOU TWI-HARDS. Guess where the past 3 movies have been shot? In the beautiful Canadian city of Vancouver..

- LAST BUT DEFINITELY NOT LEAST- MS.O..AKA LOHI O.AKA OHITA. Yes another GREAT contribution Canada has made to the world is yours truly. I cant even explain why I am great, because it would be tooting my own horn...BUT I AM! Deal with it...LMAO!

fun Canadian Facts-
-Ottawa - It's illegal to eat ice-cream on Bank Street on a Sunday. (iChuckled!!!)
-Montreal-It's illegal for margarine to be the same colour as butter.
-When raining, a person may not water his/her lawn

Ok I am done.. FOR NOW!..
Hugs and Kisses
Ms.O

#QuoteIreadandLove- "My body is a temple, and damn straight I just don't let ANY man worship in here"....BUAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH!!

*Note: this was done to annoy a friend of mine. I hope you had some laughs too*