My beautiful people of blogville!! Oh have i missed u lot!!! I know ehem I have to say sorry for the MIA ish that went down, but babes where ridiculosly busy. Working two jobs, (which I quit one by the way, am not that broke please!!! I cant kill myself) and i dunno everytime i wanted to start writng about something, I would become bored and leave it half way. Anyways am back!!!! Thanks to everyone that checked up on me, and those that hounded me to update. Love all of u muchos!!! So whats new people, Any engagements, childbirths anything!?!??!..lemme know ooo!!!
Ahh the month of july went by soo fast. Firstly with the new job, lord was I busy. The job itself isnt that busy but waking up so early and going to bed so late, left little time for anything else. This month also saw about my learning how to drive. yep people, In my old age I had to overcome my phobia and learn how to drive!! I am tired of taking transit!!! So yes I will be a certified driver next week, if I pass my test!!!
Work. Work is ok. Boring. Same ol crap I cant wait to go back to school in the fall I think I am beginning to realise the whole 9-5 ish is not for everybody. I dunno if i want to do this fulltime when I graduate but what are my options!!! The money on the other hand isnt half bad so I am not complaining! I shall shut up and sit here for the next month and pack my load to my house!!
In the Hubby news. well things are great as of today. as of last week I was kinda single. lol. I did something. Yep Ms O screwed herself over. No i didn not cheat per se. No i did not do anything your mind is thinking. But I did do something that could not just be easily forgiven. So he was mad and what not. tried to ignore me, but ALAS!! he loves me too much so, we talked everything out and well all I can say is we are both very happy. I have a renewed love for this man. Like I never knew I could care so much about someone and yet they seem to care about me more. Like isnt that just great!! All the Gbegberuns in our life are starting to fall back because I guess they have tried all they can and well since nothing they are doing is working, They are learning to move on.
IS THIS POST TO LONG ALREADY!!!....SORRY OOO IF IT IS!!! BUT YEP..I HAVE MORE ISH TO SAY!!! SO THIS IS TOPIC NUMBER TWO THAT HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME..WHY OH WHY ARE NIGERIANS LIKE THIS WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!
Something that has been bothering me for like ever. So I live in this city where nobody minds their business it reminds me so much of back home where everyone is in everyones business. But i digress. So in this city of mine which I plan to leave the second I graduate, Everyone likes to talk about everyone. and OMIGOSH its not not the girls, The guys talk more than the girls self asin its very disturbing we have these guys who are all friends and I WILL REFER TO THEM AS THE GBEGBERUNS of the city. These are grown men who dont know how to mind their business. They Kiss and tell oh yes they do. So if you have anything to do with them you are a gonna. Coz they will tell your gist to all their friends and its a wrap your rep is on the line forever. And also if they disturb you for too long and you keep posting them, guess what they will formulate the most amazing things in this world and tell the whole world and your rep will again be ruined forever.
When I went to my University, I had not lived amongst Nigerians for a long while. I love my culture, I love everything about being Nigerian so when I moved and was suddenly surrounded by so many Nigerian people I loved it. I really put myself out there went for their events, volunteered, everything. Next thing you know as the naija girl I was with a very open mind and trusting people, being way too nice to randoms and all that, My name entered the gist. AHH Ms O did this Ms O did that. It became fustrating at one point for a while I went into hiding in my second yr. So I ask myself and you beautiful people of blogville why do Some Nigerian people like to act like they are holier than thou? am sure ill get randoms saying crap but I dont give two. Because half the time the people saying all this stuff arent any better. I go on some African and Nigerian groups on facebook and I see all these people claiming Virginity when the whole world knows they done had an abortion. So why would we rather lie to ourselves and even the ones we call our friends than be real about certain aspects of our lives? and why cant Some people jsut be mature and act thier age? So my main question is why is it that people dont mind their bussiness? why do people like to talk and formulate gist? Some of which are very disturbing. WHY OOO WHY!!!! This is my MONTHLY VENT. so someone please answer me!!!
lol..that was long. Right now am stuck on this old jam. Case-Missing You..was always one of my fave songs. Ok am outtie...XOXO
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