Hey y'all,
How is everyone doing? I have had a very busy week like omg . lemme walk you through a day in my life. Well so I got a 8-4 (aka 9-5) job. And I am so happy like omg I was looking for a job soo hard and when i gave up and concentrated on my other job, God gave me my dream job. am so happy like ecstatic. but I digress, so every morning I wake up at 6am. shower...am out of the house by 6:45. I dont drive right now so I have to take transit.. I am on the bus till 8:00. Work from 8am-4:30pm. Then off to my second job which starts at 5pm. work 5pm till 9:30pm. Get back on the bus. My second job is kinda far from my house so I get home by 11pm sumtimes 11:30..of course i have to go through blogville, facebook and emails and ish So i am in bed by like 12:30-1am ish.. and wakes up at 6am. YES THIS WAS ME FOR A WEEK. i DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE I GOT THE STRENGHT BUT GOD DEY!!!. this post might be verrrrry long..I might make it into 2 parts. First of all I want to discuss somethings that have been bothering me for a while now.
First of all over the weekend I heard of a friend that died. At my age of 20-summin this is the first person I actually know to die. and well I was shocked, didnt know how to react, was just very blah to the whole situation. Went on hIS facebook it was his bday on wednesday and I hadnt wished him a happy birthday coz I was "working" and was soo busy. I hadnt cared to try and find out how he was doing since he moved back to Ghana. He was a sicklar so I guess it was kinda expected but still. Why is life soo sad. His brother is here and I dont understand how am supposed to comfort him or make him feel better coz I know he wont. His sister has cried her eyes out. I dont even wanna know how his mum and dad feel. Over all I am just sad. I dont understand how two ppl that are AS(blood type) would marry and have children isnt that utter wickedness. Yea fine the other two are healthy but still. This boy just graduated in December. After all the thousands of dollars his parents have spent coz he is an international student, God just takes him. After all the love and pain and everything they have been through? When I was in first year in mY chool I spent my spring break with him and his brother playin monpoly erryday till 8am in the morning and then we would all fall asleep and wake up and the girls would cook while the guyz cleand up and then we would be bAck to monopoly!!!!..like how do you forget such memories? This has sha made me come to one conclusion..plssssssssssss if ur AS dont marry another AS. the pain is too much. My friends dad died earlier this month from the exact same thing. Like i am just scared right now of the world. as if that wasnt enough my friend that staying with mE for the summer, her Boss's son thAt he runs his business with died yesterday. They where suppsoed to be away for the weekend having fun coz its a long weekend and now his son is dead..Like PEOPLE WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE WORLD BIKO. SUMOBODY ANSWER ME PLEASE!!!...and to make things worse my bank acocunt just went through some fraud ish..now my acount is on hold I have to go talk to the police. I dunno if I can open a new account I was suppposed to start driving lessons this week. now i cant pay for it coz my acocunt is frozen. I am JUST ASKING JESUS TO TAKE THE WHEEL. Like right now I am trying hard to live my life like its Golden. enjoy every moment like its my last. Tell the people I love that I love em. Today is my daddy's birthday and i just feel the urge to hug him but he isnt here(he lives in another country for now) and am just sad. what if he never knows how much i love him. Even my mum I never tell her how much I love her and how much she means to me. Right now am just reflecting on life in general. All the things I do like my life dependS on them, do they really matter? what actually matters in life? iN THE END ITS THE LEGACY YOU LIVE BEHIND THAT MATTERS. and right now am on my way to create my own legacy. I am not even bothered that i wont have money again coz the bank will ask me to pay all the money back..ask me why i dunno oo!!!.. but right now God Dey!!! AND THATZ ALL THAT MATTERS!!! I LOVE MY MUMMYYYYYYYYYY AND MY DADDYYYYYYYY!! my brothers even if they are soooooooooooooo annoying!!1 MY SISTER!!! even if she is evry mEan to me most times. MY BABY!! I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND STRENGHT AND BODY ..ERRYTHING!!! I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GOD!!!! I LOVE MY FRIENDS. THE ONES THAT ALWAYS HAVE ME AT HEART!!!.. I LOVE LIFEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!. THIS IS MY PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT ....and am out!!!...
p.s.. Naija reunion in Cali got cancelled coz of sum ish that could be resolved in my opinion. oh well i dont have time to be angry like half of the folks out there.. coz life is too short people..go out there and start a random party if you wanna dance soo bad!!!. ok am out nw
ill write about the other crap bothering me tomorrow. @ my new job I have lodsa spare time!!!
Hey GUYS!!..I know I been MIA for a bit..just started my second job trynna get a hand of things and all that jazz..received this in the mail a lil while ago... LOVED IT and thought I would Share. ENJOY!!!!..Ill be updating on TUESDAY!!!..
1. When my grandma got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandpa does it for her now all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love. Rebecca - age 8
2. When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouths. Billy - age 4
3. Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving Cologne and they go out and smell each other. Kari - age 5
4. Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your Freedom fries without making them give you any of theirs. Chrissy - age 6
5. Love is what makes you smile when you're tired. Terri - age 4
6. Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK. Danny - age 7
7. Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My mommy and my daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss. Emily - age 8
8. Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen. Bobby - age 7
9. If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate. Nikka - age 6
10. Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday. Noelle - age 7
11. Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well. Tommy - age 6
12. During my piano recital, I was on stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me, and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore. Cindy - age 8
13. My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night. Clare - age 6
14. Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chickken. Elaine - age 5
15. Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford. Chris - age 7
16. Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day. Mary Ann - age 4
17. When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you. Karen - age 7
18. Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and doesn't think it's gross. Mark - age 6
19. You really shouldn't say "I LOVE YOU" unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.
Jessica - age 8 (priceless)
20. And the winner was a 4-year old child whose next-door neighbor was an elderly man who had just lost his wife. When the child saw the man cry, the little boy went over into the man's yard and climbed on top of the man's lap and just sat there. When the boy's mother asked him what he'd said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him
cry."
ISNT THAT THE SWEETEST THING EVER...OH AND ACCORDING TO THESE KIDS..HE LOVESSSSSSSSSSS ME!!!
hello everyone how is everyone doing. Its Friday the 13th..omg omg omg!!!...haha i dont believe in that mess!!!..damn Blogsville has been really busy these days. The holiday is giving everyone too much spare time. But I am not complaining so oh well. mayne am kinda boring right now..All I been doing is working and sleeping, NOTHING ELSE!!!! oh By the way I would like to thank Everyone that responded to my last post asin you guys made me know i wasn't crazy for trying to end the babes life.. ok maybe not that serious but you get my drift. I have sha decided to ignore her to my best possibility and also my hubby has deleted her off his facebook so now unless if she is seriously stalking us, she wont have any access to us..but mayne its facebook am sure she has like some fake accounts so am leaving it unto God.
So blogville has been serious lately, Chari is now writing ...I am shocked and quite impressed too..the 14th and serenity thing is quite an enjoyable read. and everyone going private without telling me is vexing me ooo..I AM AN UNDERCOVER READER. I READ SO MANY BLOGS DURING MY SPARE TIME AND I DONT COMMENT. THIS DONT MEAN YOUR ALLOWED TO GO PRIVATE. I AM SERIOUS OO!!! BECAUSE WHEN BUMIGHT DID IT FOR LIKE 48HRS...I WANTED TO CRY(ok not really!!) BUT I WAS SAD. So people please stop leaving blogville or going private. I have become addicted to so many blogs right now and well i just don't see myself not reading them.
Well hmmm what else could I write about..hmmm...Oh yea by the way...Hubby's sister is getting married this September, in a far far far away land from where we are..it requires going across the Atlantic..lol(if your smart you will sha figure this out..ask me why I am being coded and I dont know..lol) anywayz he invited me to the wedding. Ok so I was kind of excited you know going to the place I haven't been since I was real little and stuff. Plus taking a trip together that would be awesome. Plus ahh I haven't been to a wedding in like 5years(believe it or not)and well yea I am excited. Then it dawned on me...wait wait wait...I will be meeting his entire family..not just mumsi nd popsi but the entire family. I have met two of his sisters and they are "friendly" but the entire family..well I DONT THINK SO!!!.. so now I am trying to come up with reasons why I cannot go. Its not that I don't love him or anything along those lines. Its just scary. ENTIRE FAMILY!!...uncles, aunties, nieces, nephews, everybody!!!..ahhhh..plz plz plz...I dont think so!!!. and not even in my familiar space so if anything goes wrong not that it will, I can run home to my mummy and cry. So I am in a dilemma, the day I told him i was having second thoughts he wasn't very happy with me. If i tell him i have completely changed my mind well i dunno ooo!!.. Well I might just go and not go to the wedding. We will stay in a hotel far far away and not get to see anyone.(most unlikely to happen) Or I could go, meet his mum,dad and everybody else and they all love me and we can start planning our wedding..lol(i kid i kid). well yes that is my gist. after ms.cocoa..abi Lady KOKO has been nagging me to update.. here u have it. am outty.
Oh p.s is it just me or has naija music gone on a whole other level..i saw Banky's video or capable/the remix like two days ago and I was quite impressed. then saw the video for Kini big deal featuring Naeto C..aka My future husband..lol and Ikechuwku...and damn I was beyond blown away asin they are on fire for reals I will post videos asap!!! The only problem I seem to have is that all their videos are shot in South Africa, not that I have any problem with SA people Just we have some beautiful naija babes that could be in this videos and doesn't Tinapa have a world renowned studio where these could be shot? Instead every video is done in SA with the exact same scene....just my two kobos..anyways here are the videos. BUT I AM STILL PROUD OF THEM BOYS ALL DAY ANYDAY!!!..
beautifully yours(lol....am trynna mock u Chari)
Ms O.
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